Paul Kilmon: A Life Illustrated in Words & Photos: Ota Knox

Welcome!

Through my writing, photography, career, and personal challenges, you will discover I am just like you, a person on a journey. My goals are simple, to be healthy and happy. You will learn I have many interests. The driving force for all I do is communication, the sharing of ideas and my passion for laughter. It really is the best medicine and a great stress reducer.

I consider myself a down-to-earth guy, who is just making it up as I travel through life, adding a virtual laugh track here and there to amuse others and myself. I have a friendly personality, which is expressive, warm, upbeat, fun, and positive. I love meeting new people. I thrive on communication, organization, diversity, creativity, and laughter. – Paul Eric Kilmon (paerki)

Sunday, January 10, 2021

Ota Knox

Pets are more than just animals; they are family. They enrich our lives in so many ways. Sadly, the joy of being a pet parent goes hand in hand with the heartbreak of losing one.

I have fond memories of this little guy. He was cute, cuddly and full of energy. He loved to snuggle too. He would climb up my chest and nuzzle my neck. With heavy purring, it was clear, he was content.

To my dear friends, I am sorry for your loss. I feel your sadness, I really do. Hanging out with Ota Knox for that one weekend was "purr" magic. It's a memory that will stay with me forever.

He had a short life, but how lucky he was to be loved and cared for by the best two pet parents I have ever known.

On a more personal note – thank you, Nancy, for sharing your love of animals with me. It has enriched my life more than you know.

Our pets' love is irreplaceable, incomparable to no other living entity. There is so much they give to our character and resolve. They fortify our existence, making our journey in life a little less daunting. They are there when we’re sad, raising our spirits with a little nudge or lick. Their simple little tricks pry open our hearts even more, helping us to keep love alive for all living things. They help us appreciate the world just a bit more, and when everything is going wrong in it, they show us what is right.

Thank you, Ota Knox. You were "purr" joy. – paerki

(To another special friend who is currently experiencing her own pet parenting journey with her beloved cat, Winnie – You continue to be in my thoughts. I am hopeful for the best positive outcome. Keep doing what you are doing, but remember to take care of you too. Practice self-care.)

What would life be like without memories? It’s fair to say, there would be no life at all. Memory is our communication, reason, coherence, our action and more importantly, our feeling. Memories create our path in life, developing our psychology and leading us emotionally.

One of the best ways to create and store memories is with video. These simple effortless little snippets of time create diaries and become perpetual time capsules, which justify our walk on earth, telling all with great enthusiasm… I was here! I mattered! I lived! Please, don’t forget me.

Share your views, thoughts and opinions in the written word. Snap photographs so your eyes can travel back in time, remembering the happy and sad moments that made you the person you were, are and became in life. But, whenever possible, capture video to enhance the memories you leave behind, so that others may pass the essence of your life on to future generations. – paerki

I love photographs! They have this amazing ability to tell stories of fun places, special moments, memorable events, and exciting places. They give us reason to pause and remember friends, family, coworkers and so many others. One photograph can conjure up a flood of memories taking us on a journey. They help us remember the past, enjoy the present and ponder the future.

On a cold and rainy day I love sitting in my living room with a roaring fire, a glass of wine, classical music playing in the background and my many photographs scattered about me. I love sifting through what I call my special collection, which refers to my favorites. They remind me of the saddest and happiest moments of my life. They remind me of challenges and overcoming.

My large collection of images are a testament to a life lived. Life happens all around us so it’s important to collect special memories, and what better way than with a photograph. – paerki

It’s hard to believe I’ve been blogging for more than 12 years. This art form has allowed me to showcase and express my creativity. It has bolstered my confidence (not that is was lacking). At times it has been therapeutic, but more than anything it has given me a much deeper view of the world and how I see myself in it.

I use my insights as a barometer for self-change, which helps me reconcile the past, adapt to the present and navigate carefully into the future. I have enjoyed the roller coaster ride of thought as my hands write it and my eyes see it. As always, I hope you can relate to my stories, appreciate my views, savor the wisdom, reflect on the concepts and, more than anything, respect my friendly and genuine interest in connecting with others.

Find you own voice. Think about writing your own blog. Learn your style, share your views and open a whole new world of possibilities for you and your readers-to-be.. – paerki