Quality vs. Quantity
Sadly, we live in an age where quantity matters more than quality. Should it not be the other way around?
There is so much influence from magazines, television (especially commercials) and friends that shape our perspective. The notion of having more is often synonymous with better.
The message is loud and clear when it comes to time, when we are told to find and give more, and with possessions, where having less indicates we are unsuccessful and often not good enough. It has gone far beyond time and possessions. Now it’s affecting our relationships.
First and foremost, people think you must have a relationship to be somebody. I guess that explains why some hop from one relationship to the next. I know individuals like this, and they are completely unhappy. Sadly, I see many who are in good relationships, but choose to be greedy, having their cake and eating it, too (if you know what I mean).
What we need to understand before it’s too late is a smaller quantity of anything that is high quality will always be more satisfying. It’s a lesson I learned and learned the hard way.
Why is it we can’t taste a single piece of our favorite candy and understand it is more satisfying than eating an entire box/bag of something we are not fond of? Why can’t we purchase one nice-fitting garment that is going to make us look good, instead of buying several that don’t flatter our bodies? Why not enjoy a really nice bottle of wine on occasion instead of purchasing multiple bottles and drinking more often (that was written for you, friend)?
It’s true when I say, "One fulfilling experience can eclipse many empty moments strung together." This is something I have only learned in the past year, but as I gain age and wisdom I learn more and more. It brings me comfort, and it can bring you comfort, too.
We must learn it is not the quantity of time that matters, but the quality you experience in each moment. We must take those moments and nurture them, holding them close to our heart. My mother always said, "Never say anything bad you might regret." That is easier said than done She also said, "If you have something nice to say make sure you say it when you are thinking it because you just might miss your window of opportunity, leading to regret." That is a great example of quality vs. quantity in communication, but I digress.
My message is clear. Quality can make life sweeter, happier and less stressful. It can make you assertive, confident and for some, more approachable. When you make quality your motto, you are making the decision to live a more meaningful and beautiful life, and doing so will bring more positive experiences. Can’t we all use more of those? I can!
Quality must always be a factor when choosing friends, lovers and life partners. Who you spend your time with is as significant as what you spend your time doing. One quality project is better than having multiple projects that can lead to stress.
All of us need to think about quality and quantity, and what is more important to our survival and future. Which one will bring us true happiness, greater success and stronger outcomes? Much depends on our life. I believe most people desire quality, especially as it pertains to work, hobbies, home life, relationships (neighbors, friends and family), travel, and the list goes on and on.
Don’t be fooled into a selfish pursuit of quantity because you will only cheat yourself of the quality your heart, mind and soul desire and more often than not, desperately need.
I would rather have an occasional hug that is strong, pure, warm and tender than a million hugs that were quick and cool. I prefer a wonderful, extraordinary kiss that makes me melt, keeps me warm and makes me longing for the next, than a kiss that is easy and cold. I want a smile that is genuine because a million conditioned smiles would leave me wondering and distrusting. I want love that is unconditional and true, not selfish and manipulative.
All of us, at some point in our lifetime are faced with the question of quality vs. quantity? Don’t sell yourself short for meaningless possibilities, untruths and manipulation. If you want to be true to anyone, be true to yourself first. Doing so brings you face-to-face with quality. Each new day after, when you look in the mirror you will see quality looking back at you. You will glow, shine and be happier than you have ever been before. I guarantee.
Let this be the year you make each moment count. Treat every minute as an opportunity to give, receive and share love. Dear Friends, choose wisely. – paerki
There is so much influence from magazines, television (especially commercials) and friends that shape our perspective. The notion of having more is often synonymous with better.
The message is loud and clear when it comes to time, when we are told to find and give more, and with possessions, where having less indicates we are unsuccessful and often not good enough. It has gone far beyond time and possessions. Now it’s affecting our relationships.
First and foremost, people think you must have a relationship to be somebody. I guess that explains why some hop from one relationship to the next. I know individuals like this, and they are completely unhappy. Sadly, I see many who are in good relationships, but choose to be greedy, having their cake and eating it, too (if you know what I mean).
What we need to understand before it’s too late is a smaller quantity of anything that is high quality will always be more satisfying. It’s a lesson I learned and learned the hard way.
Why is it we can’t taste a single piece of our favorite candy and understand it is more satisfying than eating an entire box/bag of something we are not fond of? Why can’t we purchase one nice-fitting garment that is going to make us look good, instead of buying several that don’t flatter our bodies? Why not enjoy a really nice bottle of wine on occasion instead of purchasing multiple bottles and drinking more often (that was written for you, friend)?
It’s true when I say, "One fulfilling experience can eclipse many empty moments strung together." This is something I have only learned in the past year, but as I gain age and wisdom I learn more and more. It brings me comfort, and it can bring you comfort, too.
We must learn it is not the quantity of time that matters, but the quality you experience in each moment. We must take those moments and nurture them, holding them close to our heart. My mother always said, "Never say anything bad you might regret." That is easier said than done She also said, "If you have something nice to say make sure you say it when you are thinking it because you just might miss your window of opportunity, leading to regret." That is a great example of quality vs. quantity in communication, but I digress.
My message is clear. Quality can make life sweeter, happier and less stressful. It can make you assertive, confident and for some, more approachable. When you make quality your motto, you are making the decision to live a more meaningful and beautiful life, and doing so will bring more positive experiences. Can’t we all use more of those? I can!
Quality must always be a factor when choosing friends, lovers and life partners. Who you spend your time with is as significant as what you spend your time doing. One quality project is better than having multiple projects that can lead to stress.
All of us need to think about quality and quantity, and what is more important to our survival and future. Which one will bring us true happiness, greater success and stronger outcomes? Much depends on our life. I believe most people desire quality, especially as it pertains to work, hobbies, home life, relationships (neighbors, friends and family), travel, and the list goes on and on.
Don’t be fooled into a selfish pursuit of quantity because you will only cheat yourself of the quality your heart, mind and soul desire and more often than not, desperately need.
I would rather have an occasional hug that is strong, pure, warm and tender than a million hugs that were quick and cool. I prefer a wonderful, extraordinary kiss that makes me melt, keeps me warm and makes me longing for the next, than a kiss that is easy and cold. I want a smile that is genuine because a million conditioned smiles would leave me wondering and distrusting. I want love that is unconditional and true, not selfish and manipulative.
All of us, at some point in our lifetime are faced with the question of quality vs. quantity? Don’t sell yourself short for meaningless possibilities, untruths and manipulation. If you want to be true to anyone, be true to yourself first. Doing so brings you face-to-face with quality. Each new day after, when you look in the mirror you will see quality looking back at you. You will glow, shine and be happier than you have ever been before. I guarantee.
Let this be the year you make each moment count. Treat every minute as an opportunity to give, receive and share love. Dear Friends, choose wisely. – paerki
