Paul Kilmon: A Life Illustrated in Words & Photos: Cabin Fever

Welcome!

Through my writing, photography, career, and personal challenges, you will discover I am just like you, a person on a journey. My goals are simple, to be healthy and happy. You will learn I have many interests. The driving force for all I do is communication, the sharing of ideas and my passion for laughter. It really is the best medicine and a great stress reducer.

I consider myself a down-to-earth guy, who is just making it up as I travel through life, adding a virtual laugh track here and there to amuse others and myself. I have a friendly personality, which is expressive, warm, upbeat, fun, and positive. I love meeting new people. I thrive on communication, organization, diversity, creativity, and laughter. – Paul Eric Kilmon (paerki)

Tuesday, March 09, 2021

Cabin Fever

I know many people – friends, family and coworkers, who are experiencing cabin fever – decreased motivation, sadness, trouble concentrating, etc., because they feel a sense of powerlessness, and all because of COVID. (Pandemic fatigue is real. Word to the wise, control it before it controls you.)

I understand their weariness and anxiety because I was also climbing the walls, if just a little. What helps minimize my restlessness and frustrations are long walks. Walking keeps the mind moving in a positive direction, while helping you gain back some control.

What also contributes to our exhaustion and impatience is the news. I hold the rule, too much of anything can prove unhealthy. Moderation is key to a healthier life. News can take its toll on our mental health. Stop binge-watching, remembering all news is not equal. Choose vetted sources.

All things considered, this pandemic year wasn’t too bad, I contribute this to some special people in my life, my "COVID Bubble Friends". Thank you for the many hikes and walks, small safe gatherings of friends for cocktail hours and for the weekend brunches.

To a few besties, I feel like our recent weekend getaway was more than a celebration of a certain someone’s birthday, although that was reason enough. (Dear friend, you are worthy of a celebration every day. I hope this year marks a fresh start. Dream big because anything is possible. Sometimes, to preserve one’s sanity, hard choices must be made.)

It was nice letting our hair down, speaking freely about those things in our life that need resolution. I appreciated our shared opinions and words of advice. I walked away feeling hopeful, and I hope you did too.

Know this, dear reader, physical activity is a cure for cabin fever. Add to that, a few special friends, and you’ll be okay. – paerki

Additional Photos: Beach

What would life be like without memories? It’s fair to say, there would be no life at all. Memory is our communication, reason, coherence, our action and more importantly, our feeling. Memories create our path in life, developing our psychology and leading us emotionally.

One of the best ways to create and store memories is with video. These simple effortless little snippets of time create diaries and become perpetual time capsules, which justify our walk on earth, telling all with great enthusiasm… I was here! I mattered! I lived! Please, don’t forget me.

Share your views, thoughts and opinions in the written word. Snap photographs so your eyes can travel back in time, remembering the happy and sad moments that made you the person you were, are and became in life. But, whenever possible, capture video to enhance the memories you leave behind, so that others may pass the essence of your life on to future generations. – paerki

I love photographs! They have this amazing ability to tell stories of fun places, special moments, memorable events, and exciting places. They give us reason to pause and remember friends, family, coworkers and so many others. One photograph can conjure up a flood of memories taking us on a journey. They help us remember the past, enjoy the present and ponder the future.

On a cold and rainy day I love sitting in my living room with a roaring fire, a glass of wine, classical music playing in the background and my many photographs scattered about me. I love sifting through what I call my special collection, which refers to my favorites. They remind me of the saddest and happiest moments of my life. They remind me of challenges and overcoming.

My large collection of images are a testament to a life lived. Life happens all around us so it’s important to collect special memories, and what better way than with a photograph. – paerki

It’s hard to believe I’ve been blogging for more than 12 years. This art form has allowed me to showcase and express my creativity. It has bolstered my confidence (not that is was lacking). At times it has been therapeutic, but more than anything it has given me a much deeper view of the world and how I see myself in it.

I use my insights as a barometer for self-change, which helps me reconcile the past, adapt to the present and navigate carefully into the future. I have enjoyed the roller coaster ride of thought as my hands write it and my eyes see it. As always, I hope you can relate to my stories, appreciate my views, savor the wisdom, reflect on the concepts and, more than anything, respect my friendly and genuine interest in connecting with others.

Find you own voice. Think about writing your own blog. Learn your style, share your views and open a whole new world of possibilities for you and your readers-to-be.. – paerki