Paul Kilmon: A Life Illustrated in Words & Photos: Investments

Welcome!

Through my writing, photography, career, and personal challenges, you will discover I am just like you, a person on a journey. My goals are simple, to be healthy and happy. You will learn I have many interests. The driving force for all I do is communication, the sharing of ideas and my passion for laughter. It really is the best medicine and a great stress reducer.

I consider myself a down-to-earth guy, who is just making it up as I travel through life, adding a virtual laugh track here and there to amuse others and myself. I have a friendly personality, which is expressive, warm, upbeat, fun, and positive. I love meeting new people. I thrive on communication, organization, diversity, creativity, and laughter. – Paul Eric Kilmon (paerki)

Sunday, February 11, 2024

Investments

My masterclass continues. I am slowly learning that age is just a number. Yesterday, I got to spend time with one of my favorite people, someone I am happy to call a friend. She is 101 and counting. She really is impressive. Spending time with her was something I needed, especially after hearing sad news.

Friday morning, I learned another one of our other residents passed away. She was not just a resident, but a friend. She was one of the first people I bonded with, and it was meaningful. It really was a privilege to know her. Hanging out with her on trips was fun. We were never, ever at a loss for words. There was always lots of laughter, too. One of my fondest memories is when this wonderful human invited me to her apartment. Seeing her life in photos (family, friends, etc.) told me all I needed to know about her. She was loved. She will be missed.

It is strange, I just saw her a week ago. A lot can happen between chance meetings and did, but life goes on. Time will pass, things will change, but the memories will remain. What a privilege it was to know the fabulous LR.

Where I work, we make investments in people’s lives. It is not just a job – well, not for me. I took comfort in seeing other employees affected by this unexpected passing. It reinforces what I know to be true, that where I work is a privilege. I hope that continues.

Death is inevitable. The moment we are born we begin to die. It is imperative we live life to the fullest, and the way to do this is with a genuine heart, a strong mind, and a will to survive.

Death must inspire us to live – living a life guided by gratitude, selflessness, quality and, more importantly, hope.

If you get anything from this message, I hope it is this… Be present in the moment – Live life happy – Find your joy. – paerki

(The artwork in this post was created by Kathy Alexander.)

What would life be like without memories? It’s fair to say, there would be no life at all. Memory is our communication, reason, coherence, our action and more importantly, our feeling. Memories create our path in life, developing our psychology and leading us emotionally.

One of the best ways to create and store memories is with video. These simple effortless little snippets of time create diaries and become perpetual time capsules, which justify our walk on earth, telling all with great enthusiasm… I was here! I mattered! I lived! Please, don’t forget me.

Share your views, thoughts and opinions in the written word. Snap photographs so your eyes can travel back in time, remembering the happy and sad moments that made you the person you were, are and became in life. But, whenever possible, capture video to enhance the memories you leave behind, so that others may pass the essence of your life on to future generations. – paerki

I love photographs! They have this amazing ability to tell stories of fun places, special moments, memorable events, and exciting places. They give us reason to pause and remember friends, family, coworkers and so many others. One photograph can conjure up a flood of memories taking us on a journey. They help us remember the past, enjoy the present and ponder the future.

On a cold and rainy day I love sitting in my living room with a roaring fire, a glass of wine, classical music playing in the background and my many photographs scattered about me. I love sifting through what I call my special collection, which refers to my favorites. They remind me of the saddest and happiest moments of my life. They remind me of challenges and overcoming.

My large collection of images are a testament to a life lived. Life happens all around us so it’s important to collect special memories, and what better way than with a photograph. – paerki

It’s hard to believe I’ve been blogging for more than 12 years. This art form has allowed me to showcase and express my creativity. It has bolstered my confidence (not that is was lacking). At times it has been therapeutic, but more than anything it has given me a much deeper view of the world and how I see myself in it.

I use my insights as a barometer for self-change, which helps me reconcile the past, adapt to the present and navigate carefully into the future. I have enjoyed the roller coaster ride of thought as my hands write it and my eyes see it. As always, I hope you can relate to my stories, appreciate my views, savor the wisdom, reflect on the concepts and, more than anything, respect my friendly and genuine interest in connecting with others.

Find you own voice. Think about writing your own blog. Learn your style, share your views and open a whole new world of possibilities for you and your readers-to-be.. – paerki