Know Your Limitations
Wow! That’s a lot to digest. What an interesting read. The comments to this post are entertaining, to say the least. Where does disease and greed factor into this equation? "People who have permission to 'cheat' are more likely to use condoms and have frequent STI tests than clandestine cheaters are." Sorry, but I am not buying that statement. More research please!
More than anything, I believe stability is definitely the most important aspect of any relationship, whether it is monogamous or otherwise. The success of any relationship depends on how good your communications skills are and how willing and skilled you are at resolving conflict. That latter is a challenge for most.
What works for one might not work for another. Choice is imperative. We shouldn’t judge what we don’t understand. However, I do believe in a code of conduct, especially when it comes to humanity as a whole. For some, these types of relationships are more than just about the sex. It takes a special person to go the route of a polyamorous lifestyle.
If you must, have lots and lots of sex, but protect yourself – if not yourself, do it for your partner(s). Do it for humanity!
Life is hard. Do whatever it takes to succeed and be happy, but don’t compromise others and humanity in the process. Jealously, greed and disease will bite you in the ass every time. For some of you, know your limitations.
I choose monogamy. I thrive on building one strong solid relationship.
If you are single, play the dating game for as long as you can, but play it safely, and when you choose to settle down, do so with a heart (possibly hearts) that is equal to your own. Don’t settle for less, but also know what you can and cannot live without. Choose wisely before modifying your life.
Honesty, loyalty and communication are without a doubt the most import contributions you can make to your relationship. One must never abandon these elements for a moment. Never forget that deep, intimate love emanates from knowledge and giving. It comes not overnight, but over time. Cheers! – paerki (Reference: Multiple Lovers, Without Jealousy)
More than anything, I believe stability is definitely the most important aspect of any relationship, whether it is monogamous or otherwise. The success of any relationship depends on how good your communications skills are and how willing and skilled you are at resolving conflict. That latter is a challenge for most.
What works for one might not work for another. Choice is imperative. We shouldn’t judge what we don’t understand. However, I do believe in a code of conduct, especially when it comes to humanity as a whole. For some, these types of relationships are more than just about the sex. It takes a special person to go the route of a polyamorous lifestyle.
If you must, have lots and lots of sex, but protect yourself – if not yourself, do it for your partner(s). Do it for humanity!
Life is hard. Do whatever it takes to succeed and be happy, but don’t compromise others and humanity in the process. Jealously, greed and disease will bite you in the ass every time. For some of you, know your limitations.
I choose monogamy. I thrive on building one strong solid relationship.
If you are single, play the dating game for as long as you can, but play it safely, and when you choose to settle down, do so with a heart (possibly hearts) that is equal to your own. Don’t settle for less, but also know what you can and cannot live without. Choose wisely before modifying your life.
Honesty, loyalty and communication are without a doubt the most import contributions you can make to your relationship. One must never abandon these elements for a moment. Never forget that deep, intimate love emanates from knowledge and giving. It comes not overnight, but over time. Cheers! – paerki (Reference: Multiple Lovers, Without Jealousy)
