Paul Kilmon: A Life Illustrated in Words & Photos: 14 (2 of 2)

Welcome!

Through my writing, photography, career, and personal challenges, you will discover I am just like you, a person on a journey. My goals are simple, to be healthy and happy. You will learn I have many interests. The driving force for all I do is communication, the sharing of ideas and my passion for laughter. It really is the best medicine and a great stress reducer.

I consider myself a down-to-earth guy, who is just making it up as I travel through life, adding a virtual laugh track here and there to amuse others and myself. I have a friendly personality, which is expressive, warm, upbeat, fun, and positive. I love meeting new people. I thrive on communication, organization, diversity, creativity, and laughter. – Paul Eric Kilmon (paerki)

Thursday, August 05, 2021

14 (2 of 2)

I share these thoughts with you because I want you to know the little things in life matter more than anything else. A kind word, a friendly hello, a simple smile, etc., we need to be doing this more.

My advice: Slow down… smile more…. live in the present, and stop comparing yourself to others. The journey is more important than the destination. On rare occasions I forget this, but not anymore.

And if you’re curious about my future, dear reader, I think I may have already found my new home. It may not have a fireplace or garden, but the view and the coziness of the space will leave me quite satisfied.

As for my memories of this unforgettable time of my life, they will live on in my heart. – paerki

I had written the following 10 years ago, and it’s worth sharing here…

My home is very important to me. My life between these four walls of privacy I value like no other. It’s immeasurable, and absolutely priceless. It’s an oasis with a cocoon-like feeling, shielding me from the outside manipulative forces of violence and pollution. It allows for creativity, free thinking and renewal. How I decorate and express myself through my comforting castle allows it to heal my spirit when it becomes damaged by the negative energy of others and/or when I am stressed from a long day.

My place of nesting is my calling card, and it tells people I am warm, friendly, imaginative, organized, colorful, expressive and loving. When you walk through the door you come to understand the true meaning of mi casa es su casa.

The greatest gifts I can offer you are articulate conversation, soothing spirits and laughter. The idea of entertaining intensifies the experience and speaks to my home’s heart, which is its true life force.

What I have is simple by far; however, it is worth its weight in gold because I am surrounded by memories of a life lived and still in progress. I am forever reminded of family, friends and special places traveled. Photographs, books, art and music are my guides, and keep me focused. What keeps you focused?

I am hopeful that more people will revere their home as a place where the true happiness of life begins. We must always see it as our quality source for genuine inspiration, giving us energy and purpose to move forward. I want to see individuals spending less time measuring the riches of their life with bling, fancy cars, the latest gadgets and designer wares, and more so by the love and realness they bring to the place that is their ultimate source for reflection, refinement and respect.

I feel very fortunate when I can find what’s in my home in other homes. In other words, today I took a walk to the grocery store, and on my way back I walked by one of my favorite homes in my community. Without ever walking inside I could feel the pulse of this beautiful structure because of the attention to detail, care and love on the outside. The gardens alone say passion, energy, commitment and honor. These are traits we must all seek if we really want to be our best, without a doubt they will aid you in giving your best.

Never forget that a home’s beauty is not measured by size or location, but by the attention you give, the care you take, and more so by the those who live inside because that is what gives it true meaning, making it special for you and a gift for others. – paerki

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What would life be like without memories? It’s fair to say, there would be no life at all. Memory is our communication, reason, coherence, our action and more importantly, our feeling. Memories create our path in life, developing our psychology and leading us emotionally.

One of the best ways to create and store memories is with video. These simple effortless little snippets of time create diaries and become perpetual time capsules, which justify our walk on earth, telling all with great enthusiasm… I was here! I mattered! I lived! Please, don’t forget me.

Share your views, thoughts and opinions in the written word. Snap photographs so your eyes can travel back in time, remembering the happy and sad moments that made you the person you were, are and became in life. But, whenever possible, capture video to enhance the memories you leave behind, so that others may pass the essence of your life on to future generations. – paerki

I love photographs! They have this amazing ability to tell stories of fun places, special moments, memorable events, and exciting places. They give us reason to pause and remember friends, family, coworkers and so many others. One photograph can conjure up a flood of memories taking us on a journey. They help us remember the past, enjoy the present and ponder the future.

On a cold and rainy day I love sitting in my living room with a roaring fire, a glass of wine, classical music playing in the background and my many photographs scattered about me. I love sifting through what I call my special collection, which refers to my favorites. They remind me of the saddest and happiest moments of my life. They remind me of challenges and overcoming.

My large collection of images are a testament to a life lived. Life happens all around us so it’s important to collect special memories, and what better way than with a photograph. – paerki

It’s hard to believe I’ve been blogging for more than 12 years. This art form has allowed me to showcase and express my creativity. It has bolstered my confidence (not that is was lacking). At times it has been therapeutic, but more than anything it has given me a much deeper view of the world and how I see myself in it.

I use my insights as a barometer for self-change, which helps me reconcile the past, adapt to the present and navigate carefully into the future. I have enjoyed the roller coaster ride of thought as my hands write it and my eyes see it. As always, I hope you can relate to my stories, appreciate my views, savor the wisdom, reflect on the concepts and, more than anything, respect my friendly and genuine interest in connecting with others.

Find you own voice. Think about writing your own blog. Learn your style, share your views and open a whole new world of possibilities for you and your readers-to-be.. – paerki