Paul Kilmon: A Life Illustrated in Words & Photos: Stay Positive

Welcome!

Through my writing, photography, career, and personal challenges, you will discover I am just like you, a person on a journey. My goals are simple, to be healthy and happy. You will learn I have many interests. The driving force for all I do is communication, the sharing of ideas and my passion for laughter. It really is the best medicine and a great stress reducer.

I consider myself a down-to-earth guy, who is just making it up as I travel through life, adding a virtual laugh track here and there to amuse others and myself. I have a friendly personality, which is expressive, warm, upbeat, fun, and positive. I love meeting new people. I thrive on communication, organization, diversity, creativity, and laughter. – Paul Eric Kilmon (paerki)

Monday, November 11, 2013

Stay Positive

Weekends come and go so quickly. I carefully consider my options, often choosing outdoors to indoors, motion to repose, and spending time with those friends who can go the distance, which means no cell phone, laptop, television or music. My goal, most of the time, is to be moving – walking, running, hiking or cycling and communicating – talking life (current events, politics, hobbies, etc., and of course, the day-to-day). There are periods of seriousness, but that doesn’t last too long and gives way to much laughter and silliness.

It’s important for me to be with people who can be present in the moment, focusing on the tasks at hand, living for that second, while appreciating the opportunity of creating new memories that will grow a friendship, making it stronger and even more resilient. For me it’s about finding eternity with each thought, feeling and action – memorizing each smile, surprise, and even the awkward gesture, because all are full of purpose providing insight into my journey, while navigating my future.

The weekend is over, happy for the memories I made, and all because I was present in the moment. The present moment is now and the only time where we ever truly live life. The time we spend thinking about the past or worrying about the future is time better spent enjoying the here… the now… the moment. When we live in the present we are free, and anything is possible.

Begin your week on a positive note. Staying positive sometimes takes more than just smiling. Stay focused, stay determined and keep striving for greatness. As always, live life happy. Don't allow anyone to bring you down. Cheers! – paerki

What would life be like without memories? It’s fair to say, there would be no life at all. Memory is our communication, reason, coherence, our action and more importantly, our feeling. Memories create our path in life, developing our psychology and leading us emotionally.

One of the best ways to create and store memories is with video. These simple effortless little snippets of time create diaries and become perpetual time capsules, which justify our walk on earth, telling all with great enthusiasm… I was here! I mattered! I lived! Please, don’t forget me.

Share your views, thoughts and opinions in the written word. Snap photographs so your eyes can travel back in time, remembering the happy and sad moments that made you the person you were, are and became in life. But, whenever possible, capture video to enhance the memories you leave behind, so that others may pass the essence of your life on to future generations. – paerki

I love photographs! They have this amazing ability to tell stories of fun places, special moments, memorable events, and exciting places. They give us reason to pause and remember friends, family, coworkers and so many others. One photograph can conjure up a flood of memories taking us on a journey. They help us remember the past, enjoy the present and ponder the future.

On a cold and rainy day I love sitting in my living room with a roaring fire, a glass of wine, classical music playing in the background and my many photographs scattered about me. I love sifting through what I call my special collection, which refers to my favorites. They remind me of the saddest and happiest moments of my life. They remind me of challenges and overcoming.

My large collection of images are a testament to a life lived. Life happens all around us so it’s important to collect special memories, and what better way than with a photograph. – paerki

It’s hard to believe I’ve been blogging for more than 12 years. This art form has allowed me to showcase and express my creativity. It has bolstered my confidence (not that is was lacking). At times it has been therapeutic, but more than anything it has given me a much deeper view of the world and how I see myself in it.

I use my insights as a barometer for self-change, which helps me reconcile the past, adapt to the present and navigate carefully into the future. I have enjoyed the roller coaster ride of thought as my hands write it and my eyes see it. As always, I hope you can relate to my stories, appreciate my views, savor the wisdom, reflect on the concepts and, more than anything, respect my friendly and genuine interest in connecting with others.

Find you own voice. Think about writing your own blog. Learn your style, share your views and open a whole new world of possibilities for you and your readers-to-be.. – paerki